Thursday, 28 August 2008
Sydney , Australia
Dear Friend,
Re: Surviving A Dirty Divorce With Your Sanity, Finances, And Your Integrity Intact!
Is this you?
You've just been told she wants a divorce. This took you completely by surprise. You want the best outcome for your children and yourself. But you're confused, afraid, and you don't know where to turn. Decisions have to be made right now. But, are they the right decisions for your children and yourself?
I recommend to all of my clients to get and study “The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War”. It gives them the knowledge they need to fully understand and deal with their legal matter effectively. It makes it much less stressful when you know the rules and strategies. It also really saves yours legal costs when you know the system. — Rochelle Macredie Solicitor, Sydney |
You can expect this to be a very rough time. After all, you and she had probably had years together and not all of them were bad. At one time you loved each other. Nobody marries with the expectation of failure. Married couples never contemplate that the person they once loved could later seem to be a stranger and perhaps even an enemy.
You have to change your mind set about this. The tactics used can be very dirty business and it can happen to you.
Under the Australian Family Law Act 1975 I am not allowed to publish anything that would possibly identify any party or witness in a Family Court proceeding which means I cannot present any letters or quotes from my clients on this website. This does not mean I don't have any. It just means I don't want to spend a year in jail. Email me for further information.
Here is the section from the Family Law Act 1975:
121 Restriction on publication of court proceedings
(1) A person who publishes in a newspaper or periodical publication, by radio broadcast or television or by other electronic means, or otherwise disseminates to the public or to a section of the public by any means, any account of any proceedings, or of any part of any proceedings, under this Act that identifies:
(a) a party to the proceedings;
(b) a person who is related to, or associated with, a party to the proceedings or is, or is alleged to be, in any other way concerned in the matter to which the proceedings relate; or
(c) a witness in the proceedings;
is guilty of an offence punishable, upon conviction by imprisonment for a period not exceeding one year.
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Getting divorced is moving into a new and difficult world. A world of legal rules and tremendous emotional pressures. A world that will change the way you live, the way you think and the way you do things.
I have met many guys in this very situation. And invariably they all make the same mistakes that really hurt their cases before they even start the court proceedings. And it just snowballs from there, getting worse and worse.
A lot of men go into divorce thinking that they have all sorts of rights - which they don't get. Some even believe the feminist propaganda that men have all of the power. Some guys keep on with some sort of super benevolent attitude that they will be kind toward their wife's needs. What they find out is that their wife's needs become demands and that without proper preparations for a fight they are left POWERLESS.
The family court is an adversarial system which means somebody wins and somebody loses. There are three players and two winners in this legal game. The only real winner is the legal system. Then one of the parties wins what's left and the other party loses.
The surprise at being suddenly involved in a divorce could put you off guard and cause the needless loss of your assets and your children's rights to have a father in their lives. There is a real danger of making irrational or uninformed decisions when stressed. Many men, who talk to us after things went horribly wrong, say things like, “I just couldn't think straight,” or “my brain wasn't working properly”.
What you are going through is so difficult and painful it can be tempting to hand over the responsibility and decision making to someone else. That can create some huge problems for you.
A practical know how Guide on how to handle yourself in family courts.
“The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War” was written to give you a fighting chance in the Family Court.
Are you going to win with the information in this Guide? Maybe — maybe not. Probably not everything you want or think is fair. But you will be well prepared to show up and put a good, strong case to the Judge.
If you don't have this information and/or you don't follow it, you will arrive in there completely confused, lost and probably humiliated by the other side. This may happen even when you have a solicitor. I have seen this happen time and again.
A guy goes in to court, finds out she's got legal aid and is represented by a solicitor and even a barrister. He doesn't get legal aid because they claim ‘conflict of interest' which is just an excuse to save money.
So there he is. Unrepresented because he can't afford a solicitor and barrister of his own. And sometimes effectively unrepresented because his solicitor is not father friendly or really competent.
The people in the court are talking what may as well be Martian, asking questions he can't understand let alone answer. If he doesn't have someone who can show him the game, he's already lost before he even starts.
Right and wrong methods … And pointers that will increase your chances
So here is a playbook with over 140 pages on the family court game with some of the rules and where to find all of them, plus how -tos , tips, traps and tricks, to get you up to speed as soon as possible.
“The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War” will show you what to say and what to do to protect yourself and your children in the family courts even if you are representing yourself.
Knowledge is power.
The first thing we need to do, is get you to understand what you're up against. The competition you're facing as you do everything you can to get the best possible outcome for your children and yourself.
What have other guys learned from the information in this Guide?
- They have learned what will maximize their odds of prevailing.
- They have learned to look at their dispute as a war.
- To look at the courthouse as a battlefield and to understand that this is the most vicious, legal, economic, and emotional war they are likely to ever fight.
- They've realized that the stakes are as high as they get. What is more important than the life of your child?
- They've also realized that if they fail to gain victory for themselves and their children, a vindictive mother with the worst of motivations will rule and likely ruin the life of those innocent children.
As one guy said, “ Expect her to lie. Expect them to believe her. Expect no fairness. Expect to need mountains of evidence to prove your case.
“Their goal is to ‘bleed you dry' and beat you into submission. You'll never see the last of their dirty tricks. It behoves you therefore to be very prepared very early.”
You have the most to lose or the most to gain.
Ignorance about how to take care of yourself and your children in the court process can be the mistake that kills your chances of success.
The fact is if you are not following your own plan, you are most assuredly following someone else's.
Let me ask you these real FAQs. What would you advise?
- Do you allow your soon to be ex to take the children and leave? — Yes or No?
- She says, “I thinks you should move out, now” Do you go? — Yes or No?
- Should you insist on 50% residency and parenting now? — Yes or No?
- Do you agree to pay child support now? — Yes or No?
- Should you sign any reasonable sounding request? — Yes or No?
- Do you need to get a solicitor first, now, immediately? — Yes or No?
- Why not pay child support now? They are your children too.
- Should you move your personal papers and records to another location? — Yes or No?
- Why do you need a daily journal?
- Do you really need your own PO Box or separate mailing address? — Yes or No?
- Why do you need your own bank account?
- Could you be falsely accused of something? — Yes or No?
- Do you need to safeguard any jointly owned property? — Yes or No?
“The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War” answers each of these questions and many more clearly and in-depth.
My primary objective in writing this Guide is to give you the information you need. Knowledge is power and with the knowledge you will gain, you will have the power to more effectively advocate for yourself and for the children who you love.
We will help you to see the pitfalls and traps. Traps that you may never be able to get out of and will require you to live with for the rest of yours' and your children's lives, unless you handle the situations correctly from the very beginning.
In order to do battle in court successfully:
- You need to understand the system.
- You need to understand the law, procedures, general outcomes, and the process.
- You need to understand the players: the courts, the lawyers, the psychologists and psychiatrists, and the bureaucrats.
- You need the best possible information and knowledge about your adversary.
NEVER BE IN A POSITION WHERE YOU HAVE TO PLAY ‘CATCH-UP.'
You follow the strategies in this Guide from the beginning and you'll s top playing catch-up and start getting ahead.
Here are some of the strategies you will discover in the
Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War :
- An immediate checklist of steps to take to safeguard your own and your children's interests.
- Strategies for your financial issues
- Strategies for Residence and Care of your children in their best interests.
- How to document your case and why
- Plotting information (Patterns of Behaviour)
- Gathering evidence
- How to write Affidavits
- Dress for Success in Court and Why
- Hiring a Lawyer
- How to find and Effective One
- Evaluating Your Lawyer
- Negotiating Fees
- Working With Your Lawyer
- Instructing Your Lawyer
- Representing Yourself in Court
- The Family Court Process and What To Do In Each Phase
- Family Court Orders for Residence, Contact, Specific Issues
- Directions Hearings and What to Do
- What Happens at Trial
- How to deal with Psychiatric or Psychological ‘Experts' and their reports.
Who am I to be giving this information?
I have been working for an international human rights organisation for 7 years dealing with the law as a human rights advocate or McKenzie Friend mostly in Australia. I have made numerous presentations to Parliamentary Committees as well as written presentations to the Parliaments of New South Wales, and Commonwealth of Australia.
I started helping people caught up in the mental health system to get a fair deal and where necessary proper medical treatment instead of debilitating psychiatric treatments.
I discovered and handled a lot of psychiatric abuses of patients and their families. This required really understanding the law, and the institutions administering (or not as was frequently the case) the law to get results for my clients.
Dealing with psychiatric testimony and their usually absurd expert reports became something of a specialty for me.
I did a lot of research, and study into this area, which I would use in either representing patients in front of magistrates or mental health review tribunals or assisting the patient's lawyers in doing the same, and sometimes standing in for the patient's lawyer because I knew the law and jurisdiction better than they did.
I soon was getting calls for help in dealing with these expert reports in cases before guardianship tribunals where many times the person subject to these guardianship orders and their families were not allowed to be represented by lawyers.
Usually they had no idea in how to handle these psychiatric reports and testimony and would lose their independence, their assets, and even access to their own families because some bureaucrat said so. I mean, how do you fight this? Shrink says he's crazy so it must be true, right?
I found out this was dead wrong. Saying so, don't make it so. From my research, I've got 2,000 references from their medical journals that prove it ain't so. This list of references is included in the Guide.
As well as dealing with abuses in the guardianship system, I got calls from dads who were being screwed in the family courts by these same reports and testimony.
By the time I got told about it, it was usually too late to get things changed. Once the report is written and accepted, it is very difficult to get it unwritten or rewritten. These guys needed to know what to do BEFORE they agreed to a family report or an ‘expert report'.
So where I could, I advised guys to do what you have in this reference Guide.
I have written what I know from experience to be the most practical things to do to protect yourself in this divorce war. It is a war — make no mistake.
Now, you must take the next step.
You've got to take some constructive action right now, or the very thing you fear most will come true, and your situation will be hopeless.
"The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War" will give you the specific step-by-step strategies you need to protect your children and yourself.
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Sincerely,
John McGuinness
A McKenzie Friend
Sydney, Australia
PS — How many of the strategies in Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War will work for you ?
I don't know.
What I can tell you is over 100 guys in Australia just like you have read “Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War”, and I get phone calls every day from guys praising the book and telling me how their lives have changed.
Their cases are under their control. They're more certain and confident in dealing with the family courts and they still can't believe it.
Let's say you didn't buy this Guide.
Where will that leave you?
Will your case and your life be back under control? Will you have the confidence and the certainty to deal with this most vicious, legal, economic, and emotional war you are likely to ever fight?
Probably not.
Will you be kicking yourself for the rest of your life if you didn't try everything possible to get the best possible outcome for your children and yourself?
Absolutely.
I can't make the decision for you. It's 100% up to you.
“The Father's Guide to Winning the Divorce War” can help you, but you've got to take the first step.
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